In 2000, my older brother Kelly was diagnosed with schizophrenia, and was admitted into a psychiatric hospital. he improved slightly over the following months, but then took a turn for the worse, and took his own life while in the hospitals care. My younger sister Holly took this loss pretty hard, and has devoted herself to taking care of children with mental disabilities ever since. She is currently a nurse at The Parry Center for Children in Portland, Oregon. I talk to Holly daily, and she's always conveying how helpless she feels in her efforts to provide quality care for children who are admitted to the hospital as "Property of the State". These kids are either orphans, or have grown up in an abusive environment, and have been removed from their parents by authorities.
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Now, most people I know will jump at the opportunity to gripe about what a crappy childhood they had, myself included. But after meeting some of these kids, I have no right, nor do most people I know. I can't even begin to imagine what it must be like for a 8 or 10 year old kid to walk into a mental hospital, and have it be presented to you as your new home. And to pour salt in the wound, instead of parents to help them understand what's happening to them, they have a piece of paper with a stamp that says "property of the state" after their name.
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Anyway, given the limited resources of the state, and without aid of health insurance, my sister Holly often finds herself spending considerable portions of her salary on art supplies, music, clothing, and books, in efforts to give these kids as "normal" a life as possible.
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All money raised will be donated to the Parry Center to aid children deemed "Property of the State"... so if you can afford it, pitch in a little in recognition of the fact that, although many of us blame our childhood for most of our insecurities and quirks for years after we should have gotten over it, when you compare to some, we really didn't have it that bad. |